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From junk food

to junk connections

In the 50s, fast food companies hid that they sold nutritionless, yet addictive junk food. Today, social media companies hide that they sell meaningless, yet addictive junk connections—and again we are all the poorer for it.

Discover why tech executives ban their own children from the technological narcotics of the 21st century—while you are expected to doomscroll your life away.
Since the 1950s with the rise of alcohol, cigarettes, and junk food, society has been exposed to a series of new consumer-facing products engineered to exploit our physiology and addict people in the name of record profits.
The attention economy is the forcing function behind social media’s proliferation of persuasion technology. Hence the reason why billions of people are exposed to extremely sophisticated adversarial technology that undermines relationships, intentions, and well-being. The larger counter-movement has been termed responsible technology and is best understood as the equivalent of what clean tech is to the fossil fuel industry. We believe the best way to counteract the attention economy is by offering a viable alternative to social media.

Consumers are unlikely to switch because of increased privacy or fewer ads. A viable alternative needs to be better in every way — more time efficient, non-regrettable engagement, richer mutual understanding, and far more conducive to a happy telic life. We are not trying to make a better mousetrap and win the race to the bottom of the brainstem; we are committed to building versatile products people rely on daily to enrich life.

IRL > URL

We do not connect. We cultivate camaraderie.

More
Authentic
Non-disruptive genuine messenger
Much
quicker
4x less
painful
hosting
m
‍More
Commitment
you can count
on.
Exposure
to something very costly

-

4.0

hr

Hours
Daily
Or 50% of
your free time

-

28

hr

Weekly
Or 3x a full night
of 8 hrs of sleep

-

112

hr

Hours

Monthly
Or 7 full additonal waking days

-

1344

hr

Hours

Annually
Or 3 months of your
waking life per year

8

:

39

hr

hours

Daily teen and tween
(13-18) entertainment
screen use
Common Sense
Consensus
• 2021

150

x

hours

Daily phone unlocks,
equalling one every
6 minutes.
Daily 16
hours
waking

#1

th

passive

Social media is now the  largest discretionary activity in the 21st Century
Compared to all other
common activities
• 2021

2600

taps

Daily average phone taps, often preceded by pavlovian trigger
The Brussels Times • Only android users
• 2016

+

1344

hr

Imagine What you
could do with that
time in just one year
2.7x
Sailing around the world
Each 500 Hr
168x
Round-trip flights from New York to LA
8 Hr each
Reading
224x
books
6 Hr each
336x
dinner parties with friends
4 Hr each
672x
coffee catch-ups
1.5 Hr each
Watching
896x
movies in theaters
1.5 Hr each
1x
expert chef
1000 Hr each
Attending
224x
sporting events
6 Hr each
Running
134x
marathons
10 Hr each
67x
weekend getaways
Each 20 Hr each
Attending
336x
concerts
4 Hr each
Earning
2.7x
college degrees
500 Hr each
448x
Earning
video game tournaments
3 Hr each
experiencing
How this all making us feel

40

%

US students report 'too depressed to function' in 2016. 61% of students said they had “felt overwhelming anxiety” in that period
American College Health Association survey
• 2017

-

61

%

Decrease in having 10 or more close friends, from 33% to 13%
Survey Center of American Health
• 1990-2021

+

56

%

Increase in teen
14-18 suicides rates
American Psychiatric Association (APA)
• 2007-2017

+

151

%

Increase in girls
10-14 suicide rates
Center for Disease Control and Prevention
• 2010-2018

+

78

%

Increase in 'serious psychological distress' episodes by 20-year-olds
Jean M. Twenge, Journal of Abnormal Psychology
• 2019

+

32

%

Of UK teenage girls say Instagram makes the'feel worse about themselves'
Leaks from 
The Facebook Files
• 2021

47

%

Of Americans feel 'often or always alone' and reports having 'no meaningful relationhips'
American College Health Association Survey
• 2010-2018

+

189

%

Increase girls 10-14 hospital admissions for self-harm
Center for Disease Control and Prevention
• 2009-2015
life in the 21st century
So let's zoom out and see the big picture that
Apple's Screen Time won't show you...

Lifespan

84

Years

2

Months

Waking Moments

51

Years

2

Months

Life Time use (LTU)

Your
Life

Chores

48

%

7

Years

0

Months

Streaming

48

%

10

Years

11

Months

Social media

48

%

12

Years

8

Months

living life with your phone as a glove  
A species
living through their devices
Now, let's zoom out from our information-saturated world And look at the big picture.

Every day humanity is watching:

-1000000000

Hours on TikTok alone...
Which collectively equals...

-114000

years

Every 24 hours for almost every platform...
Since the 1950s with the rise of alcohol, cigarettes, and junk food, society has been exposed to a series of new consumer-facing products engineered to exploit our physiology and addict people in the name of record profits.

1890

“We must reflect that, when we reach the end of our days, our life experience will equal what we have paid attention to — whether by choice or default.”

— William James

Breaking the narrative

"There are only two industries that call their customers 'users': illegal drugs and software."

Edward Tufte

You are not a user. You are a multi-dimensional human being with hopes and dreams to live boldly, love deeply, learn constantly, and leave a lasting legacy. So, never forget:

You are going to miss out

if you are

f

f

n

social media.

Why is it that to not miss out one needs to be constantly interrupted? Why despite all this powerful technology, so much uncertainty remains that we feel the insatiable compulsion to check our phones on average every 6 minutes of our waking day? At Telos, we aim to enable people to opt out without missing out. Ensuring users everything urgent or important always gets through while batching the rest, thus lowering pickup counts.
vocbulary
Telos
/ τέλος /
Supreme end of man's endeavor
Telic
/ˈtɛlɪk/
An action or attitude directed to a definite end
Autotelic
/ˌɔːtə(ʊ)ˈtɛlɪk/
An activity having an end or purpose in itself
Mission

Telos is accelerating the transition toward a responsible technology future through software designed to cultivate people's autotelic hearts and telic minds.

Vision

Accelerate the transition to a humane technology future..

Today we are pioneering an offline social network for our early-community members at MIT.

Tenets
telos values

And that is just one platform. Pause on that for a moment.

The first step of change is to acknowledge something is serriously wrong.

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